When He Doesn’t Know What He Wants

Have you ever met someone you thought was amazing and they’ve seemed confused about what they want? Are they sending you mixed messages? Still coming out of a complicated relationship? Here is a few tips for you as I’ve had personal experience in this area. Just don’t mess with mine and other people’s feeling if you are confused about your own – it’s just not right. 

HOW DID YOU KNOW THEY WERE CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT?
Not making any effort anymore
Telling you one thing and then doing another
Still in contact with their ex
Not taking the time to get to know you
Always saying they were busy
Telling you they were in a bad place

HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
Angry
Frustrated
Upset
Heartbroken
Lied to
Used
Second best

WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT?
Move on from that asshole, you deserve 100x better than that
Are you able to wait for him to make up his mind?
Does he make you feel special? Or is it just mind games?

Have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

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  • I’m currently in this situation, I started sleeping with a guy a couple of weeks ago and in between the sex we’ve spoken a lot and I’ve developed a crush and so I told him. The only issue is he’s recently broken up with his girlfriend (something he decided to do) and she wants them to get back together, but he’s not a quick to want that. I’ve told him to do what he wants to do, not what he thinks he should do, and while we’re still talking I’m trying to give him the space he needs to think at the same time. I suppose it’s just an awkward situation.
    Alicia x
    http://www.aestheticobsessed.co.uk

    • Shannon

      My god it is the most frustrating situation to ever be in. I’m fed up of guys fucking about with other peoples feelings and not knowing what they’ve done wrong. I can’t be dealing with that, they just need to be honest with what they want. I’m sorry to hear you are in this situation xx