It was quite a few months ago when I wrote my post called 4 Things I’m Fed Up Of In The Dating World and I wanted to do another little update post with some more things that really piss me off in the dating world.
GUYS CLAIMING TO BE IN A COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP
I’ve come across guys claiming to be in a complicated relationship with their ‘ex’ and they start flirting and sending messages to me and probably other girls out there leading them on and then still hanging out and being close with their ‘ex’. It’s only complicated if you make it complicated – either you love them or not! It’s not that difficult. Don’t fuck with someone else’s feelings and emotions when you are so confused about your own. I’m so fed up of being treated like shit!
BEING STOOD UP BEFORE DATES
I’ve had this done to be a couple of times so far and I honestly think it’s the most pathetic thing a guy can do – just grow some balls and be honest. Don’t just lead someone on in the hopes they’ll get a date from you and then just leave them and not speak to them or message them to say sorry “blah blah” happened.
BEING USED FOR A GUYS GAIN
I’ve had this recently when I’ve been used by a guy for his own gain when he had no one else to talk to especially him being in a ‘complicated’ relationship and I seriously want to punch or kick him in the balls because it makes me so angry that guys think they can use girls and their feelings and get away with it without paying any consequences.
BEING BLOCKED/IGNORED AND DELETED
I don’t know how many times I’ve been through the same cycle over and over again by the same type of guy who comes across all nice and interested and either days/weeks or even months later they suddenly decide it won’t work out and then start deleted my messages, ignoring me or blocked me on social media sites without even bothering to message me to let me know they are either not interested or whatever reason and even then they still will give up on me.
GUYS WHO HAVE TWO PROFILES
I’ve come across a few guys who have two profiles on a dating app which is very sneaky and sly and you clearly can’t trust them. I was talking to one guy on his profile and all of a sudden another profile with a photo of him popped up which had slightly different information on it and I was like WTF, asked the guy and he said it was because his ex kept messaging him on it after she’d blocked him which seemed kinda odd but I gave him the benefit of the doubt but turns out I shouldn’t have trusted him either way as he turned out to be another dickhead.
What annoys you about online dating? Have you experienced any of these?